DILEMA seorang isteri, ibu & menantu

Tajuk entry kali ni ala2 tajuk drama swasta, tak pun  drama bersiri..  after all life is a drama and we are the actor/ actress... sometimes being real and there are times we act... kita hanyalah manusia biasa...

Dilema si ISTERI

Seorang isteri perlu taat kepada suami, baik atau buruknya si suami, si isteri perlu redha... itu adalah jodoh yang telah ditetapkan untuknya, setidak2 nya sehingga ke akhir jodohnya bersama si suami. A wife trying hard to be the best wife, still can be imperfect in the eye of a husband... poor si isteri. A wife afraid of getting old, gaining weight and menopause :) because of si suami, thus trying hard to maintain the shape and the beauty... tapi alih2 si suami still tambah satu dua tiga lagi.... poor the old wife, lucky the younger wife.. very lucky the husband.

Dilema si IBU

Seorang ibu pasti akan meletakkan anaknya sebagai keutamaan dlm apa jua keadaan. It doesn't matter if the mother only a housewife or a CEO of a company, cara pasti berbeza tapi keutamaan tetap sama. How hard is the job to upbring the child, a mother shall not complaint... Of coz in real life, a mother will nag, will express a frustration... but in the end.. the child is the mother's life.

Dilema si MENANTU

Seorang menantu yang berkahwin dengan anak dan memberikan gelaran nenek kepada mertua nya pasti akan sentiasa berada dlm dilema jika si mertua berada diantara keluarga kecilnya.Namun sebagai menantu, mertua mesti dilayan seperti ibu kandungya.Anyhow, jika mertua seperti ibu kandung, kenapa tidak berani berterus terang... menjaga hati dgn memakan hati sendiri.. that's why. Bersabarlah hai menantu, one day you may become a mertua as well, so just remember you don't have to meddle.Lets your kids run their own life.. when they have their own family ...give guidance but do not interfere, they will seek you advise and not go against you... or be in a dilemma because of you...

Footnote: This entry potrays general expression that may be based on own exprerience, story from friends, or just a drama swasta dan sinetron yg melambak kat national TV, no assumption only a mixture of dilemmas...
Well,I guess better live in dilemma than live in crisis, thus, hold it tight and don't ever let it burst. Dont let the dilemma turn into a crisis. All the best ;)

p/s: "gambar hiasan" (ahaksssss... mcm dlm majalah lama2 dulu...  or sekarang pun still ada tag "gambar hiasan")