BOWLING and other fun stuffs

Last 2 weeks, office papa ada buat Bowling tournament (within papa's dept) at Wangsa Walk, since Irfan also loves bowling, mummy and Irfan tagged along. The first time Irfan went to bowling alley, biasa main kat rumah jer (susun sendirik la) or kat tmpt game jer..

Just stay for a while, since Irfan cannot play at the alley so we headed to "Family Play Zone" just outside the  Wangsa's Bowl.
Here, Irfan's play bowl also... 2 chips for 1 game... tah mana2 la bola bowling tu pegi... and lots other fun stufffffffs ...:)

motor besaq ni... irfan bergaya jer, just ride this yellow motor, the rides -swings to the right and left

 

Also, chu chu train - move front and back

ni plak bergaya jugak... sb dah rosak... but since Irfan also loves heli so okay ler

ni pun Irfan suka, main "bang2x"... tak tau apa benda yg di bang2x... belasah jer la... sampai 2-3 round laaa

dan macam2 lagi lahhhhhh..... ngabiskan duit jer lepak kat sini... :)

Habis bowling papa... jalan2 jap kat Wangsa Walk ni... 1st time datang katakan... Irfan jumpa plak kawan2 lama - Barney, Baby Bob and BJ, lama tak jumpa last meet up in Sept'08 kat KLCC rasanya (pic on the right)                                                                           

Also, Oscar and his trash can, last time jumpa kat Mid Valley (dlm jusco) or kat Sogo (tak ingat daaa).. bulan August last year

Pastinya, Irfan having such a great outing time ...with mummy ( papa sibuk main bowling dgn officemate :))

AL-FATIHAH untuk tok

Tanggal 18.Feb.2010, nenek yg kami adik beradik panggil "Tok" telah kembali ke Rahmatullah kira2 jam 6.00ptg. Dlm 6 lebih dpt panggilan dari adik kat kampung mengatakan tok dah meninggal dunia... "Innalillahhiwainnailaihirojiuun". Actually tok dimasukkan ke hospital pagi khamis lepas setelah mendapat stroke, setelah empat mlm di hospital, Doktor nasihatkan famili membawa tok pulang ke rumah kerana harapan untuk pulih yg tipis.

Malam itu jam 12.00tgh mlm baru bertolak dari rumah, singgah isi minyak dan isi angin tayar kat petrol station, 12.30pg baru the journey begin. Sibuk layan borak dgn hubby, so takder la aku tido dlm perjalanan, kul 5.00pg sampai A.Star.  Masa sampai, kakak ipar yg terlelap di sofa terjaga, katanya mak baru jer tido, so takder la kitaorg kejutkan... abah, wa dan cu  (tiga beradik) beserta toksu (adik wan)  masih membaca surah Yaasin di sisi jenazah. Tidak mahu mengganggu, kami pun masuk tido... dapat tido kejap pun cukuplah... sebab bila matahari dah naik, pastinya sibuk.

Lepas solat subuh, aku menjenguk jenazah tok... risau kalau dah lewat nanti, bila tetamu dtg tak berkesempatan nak melihat dari dekat. Dalam jam 9.00pg, mandikan jenazah tok... at first aku nak ikut serta, tapi Irfan pulak dah bangun tido... sempat tgk org masjid siapkan kain kafan jer.  Selesai jenazah tok dimandi dan dikafan kan, anak2, cucu2, cicit2, sedara mara dan jiran memberikan penghormatan terakhir. 10.30pg, jenazah dibawa ke masjid Pantai Johor untuk disembahyangkan, dan jam 11.00pg jenazah selamat dikebumikan di tanah perkuburan Islam Mentalon. Alhamdulillah, urusan terakhir jenazah yg diuruskan oleh org2 yg masih hidup didunia ni berjalan dgn lancar mengikut masa yg ditetapkan..

Buat arwah Tok - Hajjah Maryam binti Mat, semoga berada dikalangan org2 soleh dan solehah. 
AL-FATIHAH.

HOME Sweet Home - WALL STICKER

Experiment the home deco with wall sticker.... the easy and cheaper way of wall decorating... So for the wall at family area... tempat Irfan lepak watching CARS or his other cartoons  ... letakkan gambar cat and butterfly... he likes it... my hubby and I also like it...

Then, for foyer's wall... also in green... I sticked some flower pics.. turn out the result not so nice... but just let it be for a while... kalau rasa muak nanti tanggalkan jer.... takder la ralat sgt... hopefully I wont turn the house into a kindergarten with all the stickers... huhuhu

Anyway, my home still need lots of soft touch.... hmmm..hmmmm...hmmmmmm...

DRIVING, parking and I

People always associate women as a bad drivers... then popped out women as a bad parkers... Is It???... Don't think we (women) are a bad drivers or bad parkers... it just sometimes that we are too careful... and need extra time like we always did (for make up, shopping, gossipping, etc). Anyway it it better than becoming a road bullies as most men are.

I start driving alone few years ago, after owned my 1st car... well it takes me few days before I drive alone after getting the car... no courage to drive. However, after the 2nd day of driving, I drove off from KL to Malacca alone... facing the jammed as well as the sense of highways, experienced day and night, as well as caught in the rain... Still remember I dont know where the wiper's handle to turn it on, ended up I used the wash mode to wipe the rain... luckily not a heavy rain until I stop at R&R to search for it...  Anyway, that experience really change my driving's perspective and skill at that time... hahaha..

~ my 1st car (in history) ~

Then for parking, it takes me a year or so before I have courage to do back parking and I will always avoid the side parking unless there was ample space for me to drove in the car directly. Hmmmm... imagine the hassle that I've gone through to look for a such a nice parking space... but that was years before...

Am I a good driver and good parker now... well, not bad... but of coz there were times that I still  need to put some effort to parked.. the time when the car parked next to my space is taking up so much space, when I missed out my judgement when do my turning, when I drove other than my usual car for the 1st time or in a blue moon... or simply when I dont really care about how I parked. Another thing, I've change my habit of looking for the nearest parking space (especially at the office), but parked farther away as means of exercising myself  (walking for a slightly longer distance :)), with hope that I can have a nice looking figure... hahaha... (for a non-athletic type like me... hate to excercise some more... but want a perfect shape... (just dreaming)).. well... that's me.. huhuhu)

One thing for sure... man and woman are equally bad drivers and bad parkers... positively... man and woman are equally good drivers and good parkers... only there are moments that the good turned into bad...
Of coz, this statement does not applies to all road bullies and the selfish drivers (you are a bad bad guy) ;)

SCARY ... Accident in LDP

On last saturday, 11th.Jan.2010 around 2.15pm, on the way to Kelana Jaya, there was an accident along the LDP. At first we thought the lorry broke down, then there were smokes coming up.. ingat lori tu rosak and enjin terbakar ke apa, since ramai org dah berkumpul tgk2 tepi jalan... menyumpah ler kat lori tu because broke down on the right lane...

Tapi bila dah dekat... baru notice ada accident, 2 org terdampar tgh jalan...kecut perut sekejap, even we are not the one involved in the accident ( mintak di jauhkan lah).

Kisahnya, lori langgar motor and the riders (penunggang and pembonceng) terheret bawah lori..the motorbike was on fire and unfortunately one of the victim is dead... "Inna-lillahi-wainna-ilaihiroji-un" Tgk jarak antara victim and the lorry... jauh jugak diheret before lorry tu stop.

Victim yg still survive, di bawa ke hospital oleh one of the civillian's car 10 minutes later, after a while baru lah polis dan ambulance sampai.

Hmmmm... so pesan kat hubby, kalau nak bawa motor tu hati2... motorbike always becoming an easy victim, melanggar or di langgar...mcm kes ni, tak tau ler sapa yg salah, yg jadi mangsa pastinya penunggang motor tu. Tapi kalau ikut pandangan kasar.. mcm lorry tu jer, lori sebesar tu on the right lane...?!!! how fast is the driver think he can go...!!

Ikutkan hati takkan bagi hubby bawa motor lagi... bukannya takder keta... Tapi, ajal maut ditangan tuhan..so kita cuma perlu berhati2 dijalan raya dan berdoa agar kematian kita dtg dengan cara yg sebaik2 nya...

IRFAN @ school

Irfan is going to school for the 1st time at R.E.A.L Kids..( well let alone the Gymboree). Kejutkan dia at 7.30am, nangis nak tido.. tapi still terus bawa ke bathroom, pujuk2 ok ler... just a quick bath... no syampoo and brushing teeth ;). Lepas mandi "ngantuk.... "

Pujuk2 lagi... pakai ler baju gym... no uniform for ECP kids, just wearing a gym suit. still... "nak tido"

Dlm jam 8 lebih, hantar Irfan gi school...

There are 4 kids in his class, the ECP class (kids age 2 1/2 up to 3 year's old ).
# RANA - the iranian girl
# KEVIN - very independent and active boy (tak boleh duduk diam),
# SYAMI - the most senior (dah join the ECP since last year, but first day still needs his mummy)
# IRFAN - mummy's boy ( I need to be around .. otherwise.....)
For  orientation's day, teacher Fiza will look after and teach the ECP kids, while teacher Wendy is assisting. Starting  Friday there will be a new teacher who will take over, which is teacher Asma.

~ Irfan is heading to his class ~

   ~ inside the class room ~

~ snack's time ~

~ lepas makan, lepak at TV's room, watching cartoon and browse story book ~

On the 2nd day, after sending Irfan to his classroom and stay for a while,saja jer pura2 tiggalkan Irfan with his teacher, when I step out of the class... huaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... Irfan start crying. So at first buat tak tahu, jer... menyorok kat tmpt lain kejap...still crying, " nak gi kat mummy!.. nak gi kat mummy !"... sampai teacher terpaksa bawa kuar Irfan to look for mummy.. becoz, bila Irfan menangis, he tends to vomit...and he did vomitting  bila I approach dan pujuk dia... hmmmmm... masalah ler jugak,  so today still tak berjaya meninggalkan Irfan kat class alone... baru 2nd day... fuhhhhhh.

2nd day activities, build up blocks, coloring and dance to R.E.A.L kids song.

hmmmm.. wondering, how long it will take for Irfan to be independent... kalau ikut experience... mmg quite sometime... he needs familiar faces to be around... either mummy, wan, nenek or ngah... papa hmmm... maybe also can lah.. mmg betul2 mencabar... bila tanya nak gi school tak... dia nak... he really like to go to school and play with others, but takes time to socialize and be independent .... Irfan oooo Irfan....

IRFAN at office on "1st day of school"

Today, bawa Irfan gi ofis, sepatutnya today is Irfan 1st day at school... tapi bila pergi parent- teacher's day on saturday lain plak cerita nya. Monday & Tuesday, orientation  for Pre2 & Pre3, Wednesday & Thursday, orientation for ECP and Pre-1. As Irfan is in the ECP, so today and tomorrow, looks like that Irfan will accompanied  mummy to the office.

Some snaps using hp's camera

Snaps using laptop's camera :

AVATAR

Last night baru berkesempatan watching AVATAR kat IOI, tu lah port yg dekat2 sket... so OU, MV akan kureng selepas ini. Lagipun Irfan gi overnight kat Meridien KL dgn wan dan makngah nyer.. so only the 2 of us :). (of coz bawa sekali 2 adik ku yg dok lepak kat rumah before diorg balik kg.)

My review for AVATAR... hmmm... mmg puas hati sangat3x, even the storyboard actually is predictable. The cinematography is marvelous... between fiction and reality... sb unsur fiction with the good side is not necessary  homo sapiens, citer ni jd hebat ( in my eyes of coz ). The terrorist quote "Fight terrorist with terrorist", ignorance that they were the actual terrororist. Own races not always rite... so lihat dgn mata hati.. "I see you" hehehehe. Overall, like it... love it...

DILEMA seorang isteri, ibu & menantu

Tajuk entry kali ni ala2 tajuk drama swasta, tak pun  drama bersiri..  after all life is a drama and we are the actor/ actress... sometimes being real and there are times we act... kita hanyalah manusia biasa...

Dilema si ISTERI

Seorang isteri perlu taat kepada suami, baik atau buruknya si suami, si isteri perlu redha... itu adalah jodoh yang telah ditetapkan untuknya, setidak2 nya sehingga ke akhir jodohnya bersama si suami. A wife trying hard to be the best wife, still can be imperfect in the eye of a husband... poor si isteri. A wife afraid of getting old, gaining weight and menopause :) because of si suami, thus trying hard to maintain the shape and the beauty... tapi alih2 si suami still tambah satu dua tiga lagi.... poor the old wife, lucky the younger wife.. very lucky the husband.

Dilema si IBU

Seorang ibu pasti akan meletakkan anaknya sebagai keutamaan dlm apa jua keadaan. It doesn't matter if the mother only a housewife or a CEO of a company, cara pasti berbeza tapi keutamaan tetap sama. How hard is the job to upbring the child, a mother shall not complaint... Of coz in real life, a mother will nag, will express a frustration... but in the end.. the child is the mother's life.

Dilema si MENANTU

Seorang menantu yang berkahwin dengan anak dan memberikan gelaran nenek kepada mertua nya pasti akan sentiasa berada dlm dilema jika si mertua berada diantara keluarga kecilnya.Namun sebagai menantu, mertua mesti dilayan seperti ibu kandungya.Anyhow, jika mertua seperti ibu kandung, kenapa tidak berani berterus terang... menjaga hati dgn memakan hati sendiri.. that's why. Bersabarlah hai menantu, one day you may become a mertua as well, so just remember you don't have to meddle.Lets your kids run their own life.. when they have their own family ...give guidance but do not interfere, they will seek you advise and not go against you... or be in a dilemma because of you...

Footnote: This entry potrays general expression that may be based on own exprerience, story from friends, or just a drama swasta dan sinetron yg melambak kat national TV, no assumption only a mixture of dilemmas...
Well,I guess better live in dilemma than live in crisis, thus, hold it tight and don't ever let it burst. Dont let the dilemma turn into a crisis. All the best ;)

p/s: "gambar hiasan" (ahaksssss... mcm dlm majalah lama2 dulu...  or sekarang pun still ada tag "gambar hiasan")